And that visibility which makes us most vulnerable is that which also is the source of our greatest strength.
– Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider
Some practitioners, whether they are coaches, healers, therapists, or doctors may not fully understand or have experienced the complex and gorgeous ways gender, sexuality, queer partnering and parenting, and sex practices can be fluid, joyful, and sacred. I have had my own experiences of having to teach a practitioner about the nuances of gender and sexuality, the gender of my partner, the queerness of mine, and the ways I move in the world as femme. Having to teach someone when I needed support, always got in the way of my own healing.
As a coach, queer person, and one who has coached and supported hundreds of people coming out, coming home, and coming to a better understanding of who they are, there is no greater honor to hold space and grace for those stepping into their wholeness. Traveling to those places where the light can not get in, bringing fears to the surface, it is necessary to have someone who can hold a lantern in just the right way to shed light on the spaces that seem too overwhelming to travel to alone.
As a client, whether you are exploring a deeper knowing and alignment of your gender and/or sexuality or you are out but crave a space of deep understanding and compassion without having to teach or explain, together we will create a container of support, compassion, and openness for you to explore issues that are present and blocking you from living in freedom and joy.
I can’t wait to dive in with you! Tell me about you, tell me about your heart and your truth.